The holidays are a time of great feats of fashion. With the myriad of parties to attend, what chic New York girl doesn’t put careful thought into each outfit she plans to wear for every holiday party on her schedule? I am no different. But this year’s planning took me to uncharted territory. And I’m [...]

Let’s just cut right to the chase: Facebook is a shady little minx. Between the constant privacy setting changes and we-just-posted-your-private-message-heauxtivities scare, FB is always up to no damn good for your life. But that “Friends You May Know” tool? The absolute devil! For example, it keeps suggesting I add a woman with whom an [...]

Hey everyone! As we move into this first feast of the holiday season, I just wanted to touch base and wish you many blessings and much happiness with your families!  Some of us will sit at tables of ten, while others with dine in sensational solo style. Whatever the case – be thankful. In the [...]

::chuckles:: Sir, she better not, if she knows what’s good for her. She’ll only get her feelings hurt.  See, I can’t staaaaand an insecure chick…or the dudes that enable them. I’ve gotten messages from male friends that start off with “just in case my girl calls you/asks/checks…” etc.,  more than once in this life, and [...]

No, really. You are. And it’s not just you. It’s you, and you, and youuuu…and probably some of your friends, too. You are the circle you keep, ya’ know. It’s not just an old adage, it’s true: “Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are.” At a certain age, you’re expected to [...]

I’ve been thinking about this particular piece since I got back from Rome, Georgia Italy, in May. It dawned on me that there are so many of my sisters out here carrying bags that were made in Italy, rocking shoes that were crafted in France, buying hair culled in India, and sporting diamonds mined in [...]