Mother. Writer. Lover. ~ Stiletto addict.
Eternal wiseass. ~ Native New Yorker.

Untamed.

Welcome inside my head. ~ Proceed with caution.

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  1. All of the Lights
    October 10, 2013
  2. Harlem Skies At Sunset
    October 10, 2013
  3. Coupe de Swill
    October 10, 2013
  4. Friday Night In My Office
    October 10, 2013

Eva Wrote It...I talk EPIC smack...I write it too...

Feb

10

So THIS Is Unconditional Love…Even When I Sound Like A Mob Wife

::sashays past you and gets comfy on your couch:: ::does not address lengthy writing hiatus while pouring a cocktail:: I think I’ve had a breakthrough. Not to get all 20-something-lost-middle-american-girl-in-a-stupid-movie on you, but…I realize…this time…I love differently. I don’t write much about my current relationship. It’s far more exciting to talk smack about the losers [...]

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Sep

03

Heartbreak Is Universal

Love is funny: no two people love the same way, and no two of your loves are comparable…but heartbreak…that’s another story. Every woman who has been there remembers the symptoms: the hurt, the possible appetite loss, the self-torture thoughts that you’re up having and he’s…well…probably not. Maybe you reread some text exchanges; flip through old [...]

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Aug

16

Me / You / Them / Us – A Poem

This morning, I rediscovered a poem I loved last fall. It’s on my Tumblr, but nowhere else. Reading it, I wondered why I hadn’t noted the author… “I love this…Why wouldn’t I add credit?…Who wrote it?…Oh wait! I did!” Friendships change. Love changes. And sometimes, you let both go at the same time without even [...]

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Jul

14

Talking to Him About Trayvon: The Aftermath

July 14, 2013 – Today is so heavy. My lower back hurts, my heart hurts, my contacts sting my eyes. Advice: don’t cry with your contacts in and then sleep with them in and then wake up to shed a couple more tears. Just don’t. You’re welcome. I’m plagued today for the same reason so [...]

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May

21

To Rome, With Love

      I walked through a foreign city with native feet; the dust footprints of my great-grandparents glowed through stone to guide me              

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May

12

“Go, Mama GO!” – A Mother’s Day Tale

Happy Mother’s Day to all the amazing moms reading this! Motherhood has been my biggest joy/headache/money pit/anxiety source/love well/hug ‘n kiss machine/happy place ever!  Yep. It’s all those things. And sometimes it can feel thankless. But if you listen in the small moments…it’s truly not. In June 2002, I was a newly single mother of [...]

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