Mother. Writer. Lover. ~ Stiletto addict.
Eternal wiseass. ~ Native New Yorker.

Untamed.

Welcome inside my head. ~ Proceed with caution.

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    May 31, 2014

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Jul

17

Checked By A Toddler: A Street Harassment Tale

Yep. You read that right. My son…my Lil’ Man…dude who’s got me by at least 4 inches now…checked a slimeball at the tender age of 4 on a midtown Manhattan street corner, during a busy morning commute. See, street harassment can happen anywhere, at any time of day, no matter what you’re wearing or who […]

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Jun

24

Fixer Uppers: 5 Reasons You Can’t Change Him

You can’t. It’s just a proven fact. And yet I hear smart women talk themselves into men they have serious qualms about, all the while reciting the ambitious mantra: “I CAN CHANGE HIM!“ You see, men aren’t houses. They aren’t do-it-yourself repair projects that you can nail new legs onto and call them “fixed”. (But imagine the […]

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Feb

10

So THIS Is Unconditional Love…Even When I Sound Like A Mob Wife

::sashays past you and gets comfy on your couch:: ::does not address lengthy writing hiatus while pouring a cocktail:: I think I’ve had a breakthrough. Not to get all 20-something-lost-middle-american-girl-in-a-stupid-movie on you, but…I realize…this time…I love differently. I don’t write much about my current relationship. It’s far more exciting to talk smack about the losers […]

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Sep

03

Heartbreak Is Universal

Love is funny: no two people love the same way, and no two of your loves are comparable…but heartbreak…that’s another story. Every woman who has been there remembers the symptoms: the hurt, the possible appetite loss, the self-torture thoughts that you’re up having and he’s…well…probably not. Maybe you reread some text exchanges; flip through old […]

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Aug

16

Me / You / Them / Us – A Poem

This morning, I rediscovered a poem I loved last fall. It’s on my Tumblr, but nowhere else. Reading it, I wondered why I hadn’t noted the author… “I love this…Why wouldn’t I add credit?…Who wrote it?…Oh wait! I did!” Friendships change. Love changes. And sometimes, you let both go at the same time without even […]

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Jul

14

Talking to Him About Trayvon: The Aftermath

July 14, 2013 – Today is so heavy. My lower back hurts, my heart hurts, my contacts sting my eyes. Advice: don’t cry with your contacts in and then sleep with them in and then wake up to shed a couple more tears. Just don’t. You’re welcome. I’m plagued today for the same reason so […]

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